The OLD FiReCrAcKeR
Saturday, June 25, 2005
Meddling where YOU ought not go...
God brought to earth man. And Man created gossip.
Ok, so there are times when I'll admit I'm bored to hell and can't think of something to do... but never do i think about gossiping about someone else's life. It leads to people getting into things that they have no buisness getting in. If it's not your life, and you weren't asked an opinion on it, and it's someone else's business.... then don't get up in it. If you're asked an opinion, then by all means provide it. Hell, sometimes you can provide that even if you're not asked. But DO NOT try to take someone else's business into your hands-- it's not yours to meddle in.
Stuff like that has the potential to ruin friendships, and turn people against each other. Not to mention it is the cardinal cause of DRAMA... and i hate drama. So, don't meddle in things that you shouldn't.
Take note from Mary J. Blige-- NO MORE DRAMA!!!
Another thing I'd like to touch on here is the value of friendship. There are many types and kinds of friends, but i'd like to touch on three... you have your best friends, who call you and spend time with you and CARE about you (or they can be the best friends that you never see because they are 300 miles away! but you talk to a lot!); then you've got those acquantaince friends... those are the ones that you see in passing, spend time with occasionally; and of course, those convienience friends, the ones who only call you when they have a free moment, those who don't care about you until it is convienient for them. Take note of those friends who take up for you and spend time with you. Ultimately, they will be a source of support for you (whether that support be holding up your beer bong, or patting you on the back after a job well done, or sitting beside you in the jail cell when you're getting booked)... they'll be there.
If you're my friend I'll be there for you... as long as you'll be there for me.
Ok. I'm done blogging for the morning. It's time for bed. Love my readers long time!
Ok, so there are times when I'll admit I'm bored to hell and can't think of something to do... but never do i think about gossiping about someone else's life. It leads to people getting into things that they have no buisness getting in. If it's not your life, and you weren't asked an opinion on it, and it's someone else's business.... then don't get up in it. If you're asked an opinion, then by all means provide it. Hell, sometimes you can provide that even if you're not asked. But DO NOT try to take someone else's business into your hands-- it's not yours to meddle in.
Stuff like that has the potential to ruin friendships, and turn people against each other. Not to mention it is the cardinal cause of DRAMA... and i hate drama. So, don't meddle in things that you shouldn't.
Take note from Mary J. Blige-- NO MORE DRAMA!!!
Another thing I'd like to touch on here is the value of friendship. There are many types and kinds of friends, but i'd like to touch on three... you have your best friends, who call you and spend time with you and CARE about you (or they can be the best friends that you never see because they are 300 miles away! but you talk to a lot!); then you've got those acquantaince friends... those are the ones that you see in passing, spend time with occasionally; and of course, those convienience friends, the ones who only call you when they have a free moment, those who don't care about you until it is convienient for them. Take note of those friends who take up for you and spend time with you. Ultimately, they will be a source of support for you (whether that support be holding up your beer bong, or patting you on the back after a job well done, or sitting beside you in the jail cell when you're getting booked)... they'll be there.
If you're my friend I'll be there for you... as long as you'll be there for me.
Ok. I'm done blogging for the morning. It's time for bed. Love my readers long time!
:: posted by Laura, 07:36
